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What Is Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy? A Positive Approach to Anxiety, Better Sleep and Food Freedom

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Have you ever found yourself overthinking everything, lying awake at night with a mind that simply won’t switch off, or feeling as though your relationship with food has become more complicated than it should be?


Perhaps you know what you would like to change, but despite your best intentions, you keep finding yourself caught in the same patterns.

You’re not alone. And it doesn’t necessarily mean you lack willpower, motivation or the ability to change.


Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy (SFH) offers a different way forward. By combining solution-focused psychotherapy, hypnosis and an understanding of how the brain works, it helps you develop a clearer picture of the future you want and take practical steps towards it.

As a Clinical Solution-Focused Hypnotherapist with over ten years of full-time clinical experience, I’ve seen how powerful it can be when people begin to understand their brains, recognise their own strengths and discover that change may be more achievable than they imagined.

My work focuses particularly on anxiety, sleep and helping people develop a healthier, more peaceful relationship with food.

But what exactly is Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy, and how might it help you?


Holly Stone explaining  what Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is and how the brain works
Online working - Solution Focused Hypnotherapy


Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is a collaborative, future-focused approach to therapy. Rather than spending most of your sessions analysing everything that has gone wrong, the emphasis is on understanding what you would like to be different and identifying the steps that could help you get there.

This doesn't mean ignoring your difficulties or pretending that painful experiences don't matter. It means acknowledging where you are now while also recognising that your current circumstances don't have to define your future.


The approach combines two complementary elements:


Solution-focused psychotherapy uses carefully considered questions and conversations to help you identify your goals, recognise your strengths and build on what is already working in your life.

Hypnosis provides an opportunity to relax, focus your attention and become absorbed in guided imagery and therapeutic suggestions. This can help you step away from the constant demands of everyday thinking and create space to focus on positive possibilities.

Hypnosis isn't about losing control or having someone take over your mind. You remain aware, and the process is collaborative. You are not being fixed by somebody else; you are supported in finding your own way forward.

The aim is to help you move from feeling stuck in a problem towards developing the confidence, clarity and resources to make meaningful changes.


The history and philosophy behind Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy


The foundations of Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy lie in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, developed by psychotherapists Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg during the 1970s and 1980s.

Their work challenged the idea that effective therapy must focus extensively on analysing problems. Instead, they explored how people could identify their preferred future, recognise exceptions to their difficulties and build on their existing abilities to create change. It is based upon the following tenets:


The seven tenets of Solution Focused Brief Therapy
Solution Focused Therapy Tenets

The development of modern Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is closely associated with David Newton, founder of Clifton Practice Hypnotherapy Training (CPHT).

David began his career as an analytical hypnotherapist but, through his clinical experience and further study, became increasingly interested in a more positive, resource-focused approach. During the 1990s, he brought together solution-focused principles with ideas from Ericksonian hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming and his own therapeutic experience. He founded CPHT in 2002 to train other practitioners in this approach.



A central principle is that you are the expert on your own life.


As your therapist, I don't arrive with all the answers, and I won't tell you how you should live. My role is to create the right environment for you to discover what works for you.

I often think of this as being the best non-expert in the business. I bring my clinical knowledge, understanding of the brain and therapeutic skills, but you bring something I can never have: your unique experience of being you.

Together, we explore what matters to you, what you want more of and what small steps might help you move towards it.


Image of the brain showing the Prefrontal cortex and Limbic system
Key brain areas

Understanding your brain: why it matters


One of the things I love about Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is that it helps people understand why they might be feeling and behaving in ways they don't particularly like.

Our brains are constantly processing information, responding to perceived threats, managing emotions and helping us navigate the demands of daily life.

When we're under pressure, anxious or overwhelmed, we can become more focused on problems and potential dangers. We may find ourselves overthinking, imagining worst-case scenarios or repeatedly revisiting the things that worry us.

This can become a familiar pattern. The more attention we give to a particular concern, the more readily it may come to mind.

Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy helps you understand these patterns without judging yourself for having them. It encourages you to begin directing more attention towards your strengths, your resources, the things that are going well and the future you would like to create.

Through repetition and practice, new ways of thinking and responding can become more familiar. You don't have to force yourself to be positive or pretend everything is fine. Instead, you can gradually develop a more balanced perspective and discover different ways of responding to life's challenges.


Image of the brain showing the reticular activating system and Anterior Cingulate Gyrus
Understanding the Reticular Activating System - What you focus on you magnify

How can Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy help with anxiety?


Anxiety can make life feel exhausting.

You might find yourself worrying about things that haven't happened, replaying conversations, anticipating problems or feeling constantly on edge. Even when there's nothing immediately wrong, your mind may struggle to switch off.

You might know that worrying isn't helping, yet feel unable to stop.

This isn't a personal failing. Anxiety can involve a combination of thoughts, physical responses, learned patterns and the way your brain interprets situations.

In Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy, we work together to understand these responses and begin developing a different way forward.


Our sessions may focus on:

  • Understanding how stress and anxiety affect the brain and body.

  • Recognising your existing coping skills and personal strengths.

  • Identifying what helps you feel calmer, more confident and more in control.

  • Developing a clearer picture of how you would like to feel and behave in everyday situations.

  • Using relaxation and hypnosis to support calm and focused attention.

  • Building small, manageable steps towards the changes you want.


Rather than making anxiety the centre of every conversation, we give attention to the person you want to become when anxiety no longer dominates your day.

The goal isn't necessarily to eliminate every anxious thought or feeling. It's to help you develop the confidence and resources to respond differently, so anxiety has less influence over your choices and your life.




Perhaps you're physically exhausted but mentally wide awake. You lie in bed planning tomorrow, worrying about yesterday or wondering how you'll cope if you don't fall asleep soon.

The more you try to force sleep, the more frustrating it can become.

Poor sleep can also leave you feeling less resilient, making everyday challenges seem harder to manage.

Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy can support a calmer approach to sleep by helping you understand the relationship between stress, thoughts, emotions and your ability to unwind.

We explore what better sleep would mean for you and identify the habits, routines and changes that may support it. Hypnosis and relaxation can provide an opportunity to slow down, quiet some of the mental noise and develop a more settled bedtime routine.

As your confidence around sleep grows, you may begin to spend less time worrying about whether you will sleep and more time allowing yourself to rest.

Sleep difficulties can have many causes, so the right support depends on your circumstances. Where appropriate, I also incorporate evidence-informed sleep strategies, including cognitive behavioural approaches to insomnia (CBT-I). Persistent sleep problems may require assessment or additional treatment.

Better sleep isn't simply about getting through the night. It's about having more energy, clarity and capacity for the life you want to live.



This is an area particularly close to my heart.


As a Master Practitioner in Eating Disorders, trained through the National Centre for Eating Disorders, I have a specialist interest in supporting people who struggle with their relationship with food.

For many people, food gradually becomes about much more than hunger.

Perhaps you spend much of your day thinking about what you should or shouldn't eat. You might follow rigid food rules, feel guilty after eating certain foods, struggle with emotional eating or find yourself moving between restriction and feeling out of control.

You may have tried diets, meal plans or countless strategies to change your behaviour, only to find yourself returning to familiar patterns.

It can be tempting to conclude that you simply need more discipline.



What if it begins with understanding what's happening beneath the behaviour?

Our relationship with food can be influenced by stress, emotions, learned habits, beliefs, body image, social pressures and our physical nutritional needs. For some people, food behaviours may also develop as a way of coping with difficult feelings or seeking a sense of control.

There is no single explanation that applies to everyone. That's why understanding your individual circumstances matters.


Through Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy, we can explore the changes you want to make without defining you by your current struggles.


Our work may include:

  • Reducing anxiety around food: developing a calmer response to eating and food-related situations.

  • Challenging unhelpful patterns: recognising rigid rules and automatic responses that no longer serve you.

  • Building awareness without judgement: understanding your thoughts, feelings and behaviours with greater curiosity and compassion.

  • Developing confidence and self-trust: moving towards choices that feel more flexible and sustainable.

  • Reconnecting with what matters: making more room for relationships, interests and experiences beyond food and body concerns.


The goal is not to replace one set of food rules with another. It is to help you develop a more peaceful, flexible relationship with food, where eating takes up less mental space and you have greater freedom to focus on the things that matter to you. This is at the heart of my PEACE programme.

I also believe it is important to recognise that food freedom isn't achieved through mindset alone. Adequate nutrition is essential for brain function and wellbeing. Eating disorders can be serious mental health conditions requiring specialist medical, nutritional and psychological care. Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy can complement that care, but it does not replace it.


What happens during Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy?


Every person's experience is different because your goals, circumstances and needs are unique.

In our sessions, we begin by exploring what has brought you to therapy and what you would like to change. We consider what life might look like when things are better and identify the small signs that would tell you that progress is happening.

We also look for the things you are already doing well, including strengths you may have overlooked or coping strategies you may not fully recognise.

This matters because change doesn't always begin with a dramatic breakthrough. Sometimes, it starts with sleeping a little better, responding differently to a stressful situation, feeling more comfortable around food or noticing that something which once felt overwhelming is becoming more manageable.

Alongside the therapeutic conversation, hypnosis provides time to relax and focus your attention. You may be guided through calming imagery and positive suggestions that reflect the direction in which you want to move.

Between sessions, you can begin noticing small changes and experimenting with practical steps that fit your life. I offer supporting downloads and work books to those who choose to work with.

There is no expectation that you should get everything right. Progress is individual, and therapy is adapted as your needs and goals evolve.


Why choose a solution-focused approach?


One of the most empowering aspects of this approach is that it doesn't assume you are broken or that somebody else needs to fix you.

It recognises that you already have strengths, abilities and experiences that can help you move forward, even if those things feel difficult to access right now.

You don't have to understand every detail of why you feel the way you do before you can begin making changes. Your past experiences can be acknowledged, but we don't need to spend every session revisiting them to work towards a preferred future.

Instead, we focus on what you want your life to look like and how you might begin moving towards it.

For some people, that means feeling calmer and less consumed by anxiety. For others, it means sleeping more comfortably, rebuilding confidence or finding freedom from the constant mental demands of food and eating.

And sometimes, improvements in one area can have a positive influence on another.



Holly Stone Clinical Solution-Focused Hypnotherapist

I have worked as a full-time Clinical Solution-Focused Hypnotherapist for over ten years, supporting thousands of clients. Alongside my clinical practice, I teach and supervise other therapists, and my specialist interests include anxiety, sleep and disordered eating.

My approach combines clinical experience, an understanding of the brain and a genuine belief in the importance of seeing the person beyond the problem.

I offer individual therapy, tailored block bookings and online resources, including guided hypnosis downloads for those who would like additional support with relaxation and sleep.

For clients who need more specialised support around their relationship with food, my PEACE Programme™ offers a structured, tailored approach to developing food freedom. The most appropriate option depends on your needs, goals and circumstances.

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, struggling to sleep or exhausted by the constant noise around food, you don't have to work everything out on your own.

We can begin with where you are today, explore what you would like to be different and take things one step at a time.


You are more than the problem you're experiencing. And your future doesn't have to look like your present.


Ready to explore what could change?


If you'd like to find out whether Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is right for you, I invite you to get in touch.

We can arrange an initial consultation to discuss what you're experiencing, what you'd like to achieve and how I may be able to support you.



Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is a collaborative therapeutic approach and outcomes vary between individuals. It is not a substitute for appropriate medical assessment or specialist treatment where these are needed.

 
 
 

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